Apply to Serve

Alright, you’ve explored the site a bit, now you want to apply. First, did you read everything? If you haven’t gone through every page, you should. Also, be sure to do your research before proceeding.


Knowing what you want and what you’re actually getting into when working with me keeps the both of us safe and clarifies the world we will be conjuring together. Wasting my time or not meeting standards will get you ignored.


I am extremely discerning with my choice of devotees. And, because my work extends to the realm of spirit, all will not align. Most will be denied access.


Applying means to potentially become both benefactor and beneficiary of the worlds that I build, contributing to not just me and my own erotic adventures but the exploration of your own desires and potential.

Screening

The screening process is necessary for your and my safety. This will require at least 2 of the following:


1. Up to 3 References from past dynamics or providers.

2. An active social media profile with a recent picture of you posted

3. A photograph of you and your official ID

4. Current Employer information and/or LinkedIn

I am not interested in obtaining a long list of “clientele” or to entertain those who wish to “test the waters” and go. I enjoy dynamics that are deep & meaningful, loyal & lasting, bonds made in spirit, and submissives that live to serve and satisfy my insatiable appetite for a good fucking time.


Applications help me decide who’s worth the energy needed to invest in the magick we’d be making. Reading through every detail, writing clear & descriptive requests, being honest about where you are & what you have to offer (rather than wish to take), and showcasing your ability to follow instructions, are all important to the process.



If I enjoy your application, and see us cultivating a dynamic or session together, I will let you know about first steps and create space for us to get to know one another. This is where we’ll determine what fits and set the tone for further training/service.


Paths of Initiation

For those who wish to be welcomed into My mysteries. How far you go depends on the depth of your devotion & readiness.

Seeker

you’re new here and have yet to appear before me for consideration. whether you were curiously seeking, called to serve, or a little bit of both.

Muse

we align & work together to create artwork, productions, rituals and experiences

Supplicant

you have given consistent offerings or have applied & been accepted into my service. This begins our dynamic journey with starter sessions and rituals

Devotee

you are in active service to Me. the work deepens and expands. specific rites and extra enchantments become available.

Patron

you are a consistent supporter and investor in my lifestyle, creative pursuits, and overall success

Thrall

a longterm, committed dynamic where you are claimed, named, (if desired, collared & leashed) and fully integrated into my world

What I Love

The proper etiquette after booking and how to impress me

Intention

Clarity in your intentions and desires will get you far. Be expressive. Let me know how bad you want to enter my world and why. Use your words. When applying, envision your responses as petitions to a deity (because they are).


Hygiene

Though we may get a bit rough & dirty from time to time, arrive to your session clean & groomed to start.


Punctuality

Don’t waste either of our times. Respond promptly. Arrive to sessions early and eager to please.


Attention to Detail

I shapeshift from moment to moment. I’m specific and unrelenting in what I want. And I have a tendency towards verboseness. Watch, listen, pay close attention, and adapt.


Arrive with Offerings

Come to my altar with tribute in hand (or freshly picked flowers that made you think of me). Click here to get an overview of what gifts I enjoy most.


Stand Out

Uniqueness and imagination are quick ways to get my attention. I love those who are fearless in their desires and willing to stand on them boldly.


A Love of Fun

I can be a hard ass…bitchy…and “I’ve been known to be quite vexing.” But I’m also a helluva good time. You should be too. If we’re not having fun, wtf are we doing?


Spiritual Seriousness

This work is directly correlated to my spiritual path and I enjoy connecting with others who are on similar journeys. Whether you’re curious and want to learn more, or experienced in your craft, I invite you bring your magick to the table


What I Hate

How to be swiftly ignored

Unserious or Incomplete Inquiries

It’s simple. Follow protocol. Fill out everything as completely as possible. And be ready to make your deposit once a session has been created.

Dishonesty

I’ve been a seer for as long as I can remember and I can always tell when a mfer is lying to me. Be truthful. Be vulnerable. We play best when all of the cards are on the table.

Commodification

My desires and preferences for devotion are not an easy access menu to satisfying yourself. I’m not interested in fulfilling a long ass jack-off list. Where’s the pleasure in that? I’m an experience, not a product.


Entitlement

This goes without saying. Impatience, lack of manners, nagging, and inappropriate behavior will not be dignified through acknowledgement. I owe you nothing. Everything received is a blessing that may never come again. Act accordingly.


Over-Scripting

Magick is theatre, performance, complete immersion in a world of fantasy and untold possiblility. However, sessions will not be micromanaged. Experiences are authentic and rooted in intention. The roles I “play” and invoke are fully embodied archetypes that will show up as they may.


Nudity Requests

I love being naked. I love adorning myself and parading around in regalia. I hate being told what to do. If you have certain attire wishes that match my tastes, I recommend offering it as tribute or asking very very nicely. I’ll still show up as I wish to.


Animal / Insect Harm

I love animals. I especially love bugs and creepy crawlies. Asking me to harm/crush them is grounds to get you blocked for all time and hexed into oblivion, you evil piece of shit.


Lack of Faith

You don’t have to believe in what I do, but you must at the very least, believe in Me. Our work may blend and bleed into fantasy, but it’s imperative that you take it serious and treat our engagement with respect & reverence from the very beginning.


I reserve the right to deny applications & access to service for any reason but especially for crossing boundaries of respect or professionalism. These include:

• Referring to me outside of set titles. Even if you know me outside of this work, it shows a lack of respect for the container and our dynamic

• Requesting to engage in acts which are not listed as available or are hard limits

• Requesting sexual intercourse of any kind in exchange for money

• Unreasonable bargaining. My boundaries, rates, and process aren’t up for debate

• Unsolicited advice or opinion. Including those related to my spiritual beliefs/magickal practice

• Leaving applications incomplete or using false information such as references with no contact information

• Unfulfilled tributes

• Using the same application as you have for other providers / copy-pasting / including Ai written responses

• Asking for travel services without readiness to afford them

• Day-of requests

• Sending NSFW texts/messages/notes on public platforms or payment apps

• Recording or documenting sessions without prior consent, waiver, and proper identification beforehand

R.A.C.K & P.R.I.C.K

I am fond of many forms of play, some of which present risks on a mental, emotional, physical and/or metaphysical level. I’m well aware of the risks my entire practice presents and wish for you to have the same clarity as I do before any choices are made. All experiences will be approached with extreme care, ecstatic consent, and active intention, which is embodied through:


RACK - Risk Aware, Consensual Kink

PRICK - Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink



Simply put, any experiences between us are fully understood and consented to. You will not engage in anything (especially spiritual work) that you have not been prepped for & agreed to well in advance. This is also why I screen for mental health concerns. It’s imperative to me that our work leads you back to wholeness.


This framework ensures that autonomy and sovereignty remain intact even during moments of intensity & surrender.


Links to learn more:

SSC, RACK, & PRICK (Loving BDSM)

BDSM Acronyms: SSC, RACK, & PRICK (Kynk101)

Consent Frameworks Explained (Shibari Study)

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